Some Reflections and Lessons from 30 Days in Europe

1. Chocolate macarons with a glass of milk is heavenly.

2. So is panna cotta.

3. Don’t be self conscious- whoever you are and whatever you’re doing, own it.

4. Selfie sticks are the worst.

5. Get up early- sleep isn’t worth the extra lines you’ll wait in when everyone else wakes up too.

6. Make friends everywhere you go.

7. Be outgoing- go up to the girl in the bar and say hi! She may turn out to be your sister.

8. Don’t be afraid to be with strangers.

9. Talk to strangers.

10. Rock the tourist look- if you’re being a tourist but you’re pretending to blend, you won’t get either experience, really.

11. See the sunrise.

12. See the sunset.

13. Sit on bridges…there’s something freeing about dangling your feet over the water. Don’t fall off.

14. Look at the ground.

15. Look at the sky.

16. Notice the little things.

17. There is no “real” Paris, or Granada, or Madrid..etc. There’s only the experience you make of it.

18. Not having service can be a good thing.

19. Don’t put in headphones unless you’re going to sleep. Even then, fall asleep to the sounds of wherever you are.

20. Wander. Get lost. You’ll find everything eventually.

21. The things you find by accident are often cooler than the things you google map and go directly to.

22. Make friends with waiters…they’re as local as it gets, and they usually speak English.

23. Wear layers.

24. Eat alone, and eat slowly. Enjoy your own company. Get to know yourself. You’ll find you’re actually pretty cool.

25. Walk alone. Don’t compromise on where you want to go.

26. Walk with a friend. Explore things together, and get excited together. Share details you know.

27. Don’t buy souvenirs. Save little things- train tickets, memories, notes, small change. They will matter more than a cheap trinket in 10 years.

28. Wear red lipstick.

29. Don’t regret anything you do. Know the consequences, learn, but never regret.

30. People are more important than places.

31. Never ignore anyone. Smile at the beggar even if you won’t give them change. If someone asks you for directions, answer them patiently. No one is unworthy of a moment of kindness.

32. Call nothing “weird” or “strange”. Say “different”, or you’re claiming it’s somehow lesser than what you’re used to.

33. Invest in good shoes.

34. Take pictures of everything. Living in the moment is great, but in a day the moment will be gone and you’ll want something to help you remember.

35. Get dressed every day, don’t look like a slob just because you’re traveling. You’ll look better in pictures, and you’ll feel more confident in places you’re unfamiliar with.

36. Sunglasses.

37. Extra socks.

38. Walk in the rain…enjoy it. Don’t let the peddlers force you into buying their umbrella.

39. Reflect at the end of every day. Live it all twice. Remember the high points, low points, and little moments.

40. Make little moments.

41. Bring your own hot sauce- if it’s not in a sausage, Europeans don’t understand spicy.

42. Smile.

43. Don’t be in a rush. Don’t overbook your day, allow yourself to have time to just look around and breath, or take extra time to talk to the waiter over lunch. See #22.

44. Don’t drink too much. Eventually no one will take care of you.

45. Don’t be a wimp. Try everything.

46. You get what you pay for. An 8€/night hostel is going to be crap, a 100€/hotel probably won’t be. Choose wisely.

47. Splurge on food. Gross inexpensive food tastes bad and will make you sick.

48. When trying new food, use the three bite rule: One bite to be brave, one to taste it, and one to make a decision if you like it.

49. Don’t make eye contact with street peddlers if you don’t want them to follow you down the street.

50. Be a witness to the current events going on right now. History is incredible and cities are full of it, but the people that live there in the present day are more important. Recognize them, their lives, and their community.

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